Thursday 13 #3: 13 Things to make the hurt go away
By Sasha on Aug 30, 2007 in Memes
Thirteen Things to make the hurt go away1. A smile! Somehow, even when I am angry with somebody, when I see him/her smile at me, the ice around my heart melts. I can be too forgiving at times hehe2. A funny memory. Or even a really great memory I have of that person.
3. If he/she did something good to my family. Like help my dad with something. Even exerted an effort to talk to my sisters. Kinda takes away the sting somehow.
4. A sentimental song while he/she is talking to me. But there’s a possibility that after the song ends, I might go back to being angry hahaha… or just plain listening to good, calming music.
5. Chocolates.
6. Flowers. Please not roses!
7. A good night’s sleep. And pray I don’t get up on the wrong side of the bed hehehe
8. A good meal. Most of the time, when I meet up with friends, I always get to be the first one to arrive. And the last time this happened, I really got angry with them. But after eating dinner with them, my anger evaporated.
9. A good conversation. Talking to close friends help a lot. The bashing? Believe me, it really feels good after bashing someone with friends. I do this with my bestfriends Tim and Lem.
10. Going to the church and praying about it.
11. Crying it all out.
12. Blogging about it. And then it somehow drains you and numbs you.
13. Confiding everything to my mom when she was still alive. This is the ultimate balm to all the hurts I was feeling before. When I was mad at my boss, my mom’s there to take away the hurt. When I chose the wrong person to love, she was there to knock some sense into my thick head.
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m | Aug 30, 2007 | Reply
Great list! but…don’t you like roses???
happy tt!
Kotabear | Aug 30, 2007 | Reply
These are some pretty good ones. Usually one good sincere ‘I’m sorry’ will do the trick if I’m mad at someone for something, but sometimes I’m a harder shell to crack. Blogging about it can help…. but it can also just get me all riled up again.
Great TT!
Damozel | Aug 30, 2007 | Reply
Yes, I agree; I don’t receive roses so often that I’ve become tired of them.
eastcoastlife | Aug 30, 2007 | Reply
I would do the same thing, have a good meal, blog and talk about it.
This is my very first T13 post and visit. ^-^
mummifiedx5 | Aug 30, 2007 | Reply
Thanks for sharing your list
I agree, chocolates and flowers fix everything!
Janet | Aug 30, 2007 | Reply
What a great mom you had! Mine’s gone too…hard to deal with …
Loved your list!
Comedy Plus | Aug 30, 2007 | Reply
Great list, but why not roses? Not my favorite, but I wouldn’t mind getting them. Have a great TT.
lady cess | Aug 30, 2007 | Reply
i wish that hurt will go away before the day ends
wishing you a happy thu 
Suprina | Aug 30, 2007 | Reply
Love #10, 5 and 1.
Great list!
Happy T13!
Lori | Aug 30, 2007 | Reply
Awesome list and OH so true:) Especially chocolate!! Happy TT.
Emmyrose | Aug 30, 2007 | Reply
hi sis,
great list hope you’re not hurting
tc!
Amy | Aug 30, 2007 | Reply
I really, really like your list. =) I need something to make my hurt go away…
Malcolm | Aug 30, 2007 | Reply
Great list of remedies… esp. 8, 9, and 10.
Kyels | Aug 30, 2007 | Reply
Happy Thursday to you too!
Nice remedies, talaga!
Lori | Aug 30, 2007 | Reply
Great list!! Happy TT-ing:)
Laarni | Aug 30, 2007 | Reply
Roses? WHY, girl?
Joshua | Aug 30, 2007 | Reply
Hi, sis! Nice list you have here. I love the bad people bashing the most, he! he!
-E | Aug 30, 2007 | Reply
Good list, always good to have a list of things you know will make you feel better. Happy TT.
The Gal Herself | Aug 30, 2007 | Reply
Great list! All these would work (and, come to think of it, have worked) for me. I’m sorry, though, that you miss your mom.
Qtpies7 | Aug 31, 2007 | Reply
I can’t imagine not having my mom. That would be hard. But having a meal with great friends is a cure-all for me!
J. Lynne | Aug 31, 2007 | Reply
I’m not a roses fan either. Great list!
Happy TT!
Starrlight | Aug 31, 2007 | Reply
Good TT. Chocolate is a wonder drug!
Tink | Aug 31, 2007 | Reply
Great remedies indeed! I’m with you on #13; both my parents died and I really miss them.
thanks for visiting my activities TT!
dimaks | Sep 2, 2007 | Reply
sounds like Oceans 13 to me, hehe. how about a nice soup? oh yeah, i suppose its included in the “food” thing. Looking at the beautiful landscape or perhaps garden might also help.