Thursday 13 #3: 13 Things to make the hurt go away

Thursday, August 30th, 2007

Thirteen Things to make the hurt go away1. A smile! Somehow, even when I am angry with somebody, when I see him/her smile at me, the ice around my heart melts. I can be too forgiving at times hehe2. A funny memory. Or even a really great memory I have of that person.

3. If he/she did something good to my family. Like help my dad with something. Even exerted an effort to talk to my sisters. Kinda takes away the sting somehow.

4. A sentimental song while he/she is talking to me. But there’s a possibility that after the song ends, I might go back to being angry hahaha… or just plain listening to good, calming music.

5. Chocolates.

6. Flowers. Please not roses!

7. A good night’s sleep. And pray I don’t get up on the wrong side of the bed hehehe

8. A good meal. Most of the time, when I meet up with friends, I always get to be the first one to arrive. And the last time this happened, I really got angry with them. But after eating dinner with them, my anger evaporated.

9. A good conversation. Talking to close friends help a lot. The bashing? Believe me, it really feels good after bashing someone with friends. I do this with my bestfriends Tim and Lem.

10. Going to the church and praying about it.

11. Crying it all out.

12. Blogging about it. And then it somehow drains you and numbs you.

13. Confiding everything to my mom when she was still alive. This is the ultimate balm to all the hurts I was feeling before. When I was mad at my boss, my mom’s there to take away the hurt. When I chose the wrong person to love, she was there to knock some sense into my thick head.

Happy Thursday everyone!

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24 Responses to “Thursday 13 #3: 13 Things to make the hurt go away”

  1. m says:
    August 30th, 2007 at 4:14 am

    Great list! but…don’t you like roses???
    happy tt!

  2. Kotabear says:
    August 30th, 2007 at 7:31 am

    These are some pretty good ones. Usually one good sincere ‘I’m sorry’ will do the trick if I’m mad at someone for something, but sometimes I’m a harder shell to crack. Blogging about it can help…. but it can also just get me all riled up again.

    Great TT!

  3. Damozel says:
    August 30th, 2007 at 7:58 am

    Yes, I agree; I don’t receive roses so often that I’ve become tired of them.

  4. eastcoastlife says:
    August 30th, 2007 at 8:36 am

    I would do the same thing, have a good meal, blog and talk about it.

    This is my very first T13 post and visit. ^-^

  5. mummifiedx5 says:
    August 30th, 2007 at 8:46 am

    Thanks for sharing your list :) I agree, chocolates and flowers fix everything!

  6. Janet says:
    August 30th, 2007 at 8:56 am

    What a great mom you had! Mine’s gone too…hard to deal with …

    Loved your list!

  7. Comedy Plus says:
    August 30th, 2007 at 8:58 am

    Great list, but why not roses? Not my favorite, but I wouldn’t mind getting them. Have a great TT. :)

  8. lady cess says:
    August 30th, 2007 at 9:51 am

    i wish that hurt will go away before the day ends :) wishing you a happy thu :)

  9. Suprina says:
    August 30th, 2007 at 9:57 am

    Love #10, 5 and 1.
    Great list!
    Happy T13!

  10. Lori says:
    August 30th, 2007 at 9:59 am

    Awesome list and OH so true:) Especially chocolate!! Happy TT.

  11. Emmyrose says:
    August 30th, 2007 at 11:03 am

    hi sis,

    great list hope you’re not hurting :) tc!

  12. Amy says:
    August 30th, 2007 at 11:45 am

    I really, really like your list. =) I need something to make my hurt go away…

  13. Malcolm says:
    August 30th, 2007 at 12:09 pm

    Great list of remedies… esp. 8, 9, and 10.

  14. Kyels says:
    August 30th, 2007 at 12:52 pm

    Happy Thursday to you too!
    ;)
    Nice remedies, talaga!

  15. Lori says:
    August 30th, 2007 at 1:05 pm

    Great list!! Happy TT-ing:)

  16. Laarni says:
    August 30th, 2007 at 1:42 pm

    Roses? WHY, girl?

  17. Joshua says:
    August 30th, 2007 at 2:35 pm

    Hi, sis! Nice list you have here. I love the bad people bashing the most, he! he!

  18. -E says:
    August 30th, 2007 at 3:17 pm

    Good list, always good to have a list of things you know will make you feel better. Happy TT.

  19. The Gal Herself says:
    August 30th, 2007 at 11:08 pm

    Great list! All these would work (and, come to think of it, have worked) for me. I’m sorry, though, that you miss your mom.

  20. Qtpies7 says:
    August 31st, 2007 at 12:54 am

    I can’t imagine not having my mom. That would be hard. But having a meal with great friends is a cure-all for me!

  21. J. Lynne says:
    August 31st, 2007 at 2:24 am

    I’m not a roses fan either. Great list!

    Happy TT!

  22. Starrlight says:
    August 31st, 2007 at 5:23 am

    Good TT. Chocolate is a wonder drug!

  23. Tink says:
    August 31st, 2007 at 5:45 am

    Great remedies indeed! I’m with you on #13; both my parents died and I really miss them.
    thanks for visiting my activities TT!

  24. dimaks says:
    September 2nd, 2007 at 5:58 pm

    sounds like Oceans 13 to me, hehe. how about a nice soup? oh yeah, i suppose its included in the “food” thing. Looking at the beautiful landscape or perhaps garden might also help.

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